24Sep 2024 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

Unplug 2 Reconnect (INTRODUCTION)

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Do you experience stress that has a negative impact you can feel it in your body? Do you feel like you are on a hamster wheel without the opportunity to follow your heart and do - or even think - what you long for? Have you had experiences in nature that have deeply moved you and that you still remember? This coaching series is all about unplugging from stress & living your vision: focusing on the future you long for, and sustainably tapping into positive feelings by focusing your attention on emotionally relevant events in the past, present and future. And that works! You have probably heard quotes like "We are what we think." You may have already told yourself, “I can’t do that” (and consequently, you have proven to…
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28Mar 2024 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments
Challenging Compassionately & Directly

Challenging Compassionately & Directly

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Coaching is pointing out what I sense, hear and see to benefit the client.* The magic of coaching is in the set up and in the intentions. And it works. My superpower is that I am very empathetic and I listen exceptionally well, which creates an open and safe environment that bubbles with prospects. Another potential lies in the way coaching challenges a person’s thinking and beliefs compassionately and directly. Here is an example: Imagine someone who keeps putting off making arrangements regarding the succession of their business. Said person is in their 70s and their health has become a bit fragile. Asked in the right context with a compassionate intention, a direct challenge would be: “What if you were not able to attend to your business, starting tomorrow and…
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01Dec 2022 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

What goes around comes around

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The expression What goes around comes around is backed up by neurological research. Because of neurons in our brain, if we are in sage mode, like joy, curiosity or peace, the person interacting with us will gradually shift to the same mode, which then will fuel our own sage, creating a virtuous cycle. If you look into a happy face and genuinely connect with that person, you will feel happier. How can you easily and authentically make people - and yourself - happy? It can be small things: Really connect with people from your heart, for just 10 seconds. Bring a smile to the people in everyday encounters. Tell someone you know a thing you recently appreciated, but have not mentioned yet. Tell a co-worker a strength in them that…
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11Jul 2022 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

Two Caterpillars

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Two caterpillars were sitting on a cabbage leaf having a chat. Suddenly, they heard a loud swishing noise, and looking up, saw a beautiful butterfly flying overhead. The first caterpillar looked to the other, shook his head and said, ‘You’ll never get me up in one of those things.’ (by Scott Simmerman) __________ Question: What represents the butterfly (or change) for you? __________ Manuela Zeitlhofer | Authenticity & Mental Fitness Coach
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06Jul 2022 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

Judgement or compassion

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“Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances.”- Wayne Dyer __________ “What you see is evidence of what you believe.”- Wayne Dyer __________ Ask yourself: -Is your opinion the truth (or is it a hypothesis)? -Does what the other person is doing really matter to anyone but them? Does your opinion really matter to anyone but you? -Do you have compassion? __________ Manuela Zeitlhofer | Mental Fitness Coach
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15Mar 2022 by Manuela Zeitlhofer 1 Comment

Neuroplasticity confirms: We can create the life we want!

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Are your familiar with the term Neuroplasticity? – It refers to the brain’s ability to adapt, form new neural pathways, and change the wiring of brain circuits. Metaphorically speaking, this means that certain pathways become highways, and other just gravel paths. It also means that we can develop the gravel paths into highways. Practically speaking, this means that we can train our brains. It means we can change our thinking. It means we can change our habits, how we think, speak and act in the world. As a life coach, I would like to point out the great possibilities this approach holds for the world of coaching: We can train our brains. A good life coach can help establish new habits. I am accepting new clients. Contact me today for…
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06Jan 2022 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

How to Live in a Seemingly Small World

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I find that with the restrictions imposed on us during COVID, my world is shrinking to the size it was when my daughter was born. Back then, we were living in the wilderness, and I was the only person taking care of the baby. I could not leave the house or have any time to myself for a seemingly long time. I learned how to carve out a space in my life that would hold who I was, so I would not loose myself. And it worked. For example, instead of going for long walks or do the outdoor chores (like getting water from the creek), started Yoga, which I could do inside with the baby around. I also reframed – that is, give different meaning – to seemingly tedious…
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16Dec 2021 by Manuela Zeitlhofer 2 Comments

Emotional Contagion

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You might have noticed that you are affected by the emotions of people around you. If someone expresses worry, frustration or anger, it will be picked up by you and others around. The same principle applies to positive emotions. Social Psychologist Elaine Hatfield calls this phenomenon emotional contagion. If you read about it you will find out that humans need the pack and from an evolutionary perspective, it has been safer to play along with the group rather than being left alone in the wild. I want to focus on an empowering aspect: Every person can be that catalyst! If other people’s emotions affect ME, then my emotions affect OTHERS. Isn’t that wonderful? Here is a current example from my life: This morning, I was walking to the school bus…
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12Nov 2021 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

The World of Little Things: Seeds

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Again, I was walking home from the school bus, when my gaze fell upon a little milkweed seed on the ground. It was glistering with dew drops. While the general scene, albeit sunny and not too cold, was rather brown – mind you, it is November and nature supposed to be brown – that little seed was a sparkling messenger of life and hope. Have you ever thought of all the beauty we might miss, by focusing on the big picture only?
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08Nov 2021 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

Happiness is Here, Now

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"Happiness is a Value, not a Goal!" That means, happiness is not something to look for, to try to reach, a goal, but a value, something to believe in, a moment-to-moment way of being! Does this sound familiar? - “I will be happy when _______” (fill the blank). What did you wish for as a child? – Your next birthday gift? As a teenager? – Your driver’s licence? As a young adult? – A good job? / A wonderful partner? – And once you got what you were wishing for, how long did your happiness last before you filled in the blank with something new, a new condition for your happiness? What are you longing for or chasing today? – Do you think this ____ (fill the blank) will make…
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05Nov 2021 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

The World of Little Things: Ice Crystals

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We had a few frosty nights. In the mornings, on the way to the school bus, I keep finding the most beautiful ice crystals. I keep thinking how intricate they are. I realize that the world does not end where my attention ends. And I am in awe. What do you think? What’s a seemingly little thing that you were in awe of? Please share a comment or a photo!
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25Oct 2021 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

The Benefits of Laughing

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What makes you laugh? –  For me, it is quite frequently my husband, who has a gift of seeing and pointing out the humor in things that I sometimes take (too) seriously. Laughter is beneficial for our physical and mental health. It can lower our blood pressure and improve concentration. In an emotional way, laughing can it can alleviate stress and anxiety. Even spiritually, laughter can help us feel more connected and whole. You don’t feel like laughing? – Even so, try doing it anyway, because our body does not know the difference between fake and real laughter. Please share what make you laugh happily!
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21Oct 2021 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

Grounding Myself In Nature

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Much has been said about how our modern life tends to create a disconnect with nature. In my coaching (and in my life) I seek to keep things simple: I need nature to survive: It gives me food, it gives me air, it gives me space to move and space to experience my connection with all other living things. When I get really calm I experienced that I AM PART of this wonderful world. What does it look like for you when you feel grounded? - Please drop me a note!
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16Oct 2021 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

Mindfulness in Motion

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Mindfulness is commonly understood as paying attention to what is happening in one’s mind, body and surroundings, with a focus on the present moment, and in a curious, compassionate and non-judgmental state. What does mindfulness do to us? Mindfulness improves our well-being. Focusing on the here and now makes it less likely to get caught up in worries about the future or nostalgia over the past. It also improves our mental and our physical health. One technique is Mindful Walking: The ability to walk sets us apart from most animals on earth. It is a defining factor of being human. Most of the time, we might fail to see walking as something special. When you walk mindfully, pay attention to the sensations of your body: How do your feet feel,…
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10Oct 2021 by Manuela Zeitlhofer No Comments

Gratefully Changing Perspective

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Humans have a hard time focusing on two emotions at the same time, especially when they are conflicting ones. When we have a problem, and we focus on the problem, we tend to see the obstacles rather than the smoother path ahead. I challenge you (that is what I do as a coach, with your permission) to find 5 things you are grateful for, right now. And then think about each one for a minute and appreciate it. Feel free to share any of your revelations!
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