How To Stop Overthinking

Interconnection, Interdependence, Mindful Self-Awareness, Self-Leadership
How Do I Stop Overthinking? When More Thinking Isn't the Answer. The natural world is slowing down. The leaves have fallen. The fields are quiet. The days are growing shorter. Trees are no longer producing new leaves, and many living things are preparing to meet the colder months with fewer resources. They are adapting to the season. We humans, however, often have a complicated relationship with slowing down. We are accustomed to measuring our days by what we accomplish. Movement feels reassuring. Productivity gives us a sense of purpose, sometimes even a sense of worth. So when things slow down, we may become restless. Shouldn't I be doing more? Am I falling behind? What should I be doing next? And when we cannot find a clear way forward, we sometimes…
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What Are You Looking For?

Mindful Self-Awareness
What Are You Looking For? How the questions we ask shape what we see—and where we go. Can the human brain resist answering a question? Of course it can. We don't have to answer every question we hear, or even every question we ask ourselves. And yet, something interesting happens when a question catches our attention. Our mind often begins searching for an answer, considering possibilities, recalling experiences, looking for clues. Questions invite us to look somewhere. And where we look matters. When the View Changes A few weeks ago, looking out of my kitchen window meant looking at a wall of green, barely five metres away. Now the last leaves have fallen. I can see across the creek again. The trees are almost bare. There has been frost, and…
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What Now? How to Explore & Live Your Choice

Conscious Living, Mindful Self-Awareness, Self-Leadership, Sustainable Leadership
Finding freedom in how we meet what is. Every autumn, the trees around us respond to changes they cannot prevent: The days grow shorter. Temperatures fall. The conditions that supported a summer of growth begin to disappear. Deciduous trees respond by withdrawing valuable nutrients from their leaves, conserving resources, and preparing for the colder months ahead. Their leaves change colour and eventually fall. Much of what sustained their summer growth is no longer needed in the same form. A tree cannot negotiate with the seasons. It cannot hold back winter or insist that summer continue. And yet, its response to changing conditions is anything but meaningless. Perhaps there is something here for us to consider. When We Cannot Change What Is Happening There is a great deal happening in our…
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Introspection for Introverts | Canada Day Gift

Introspection for Introverts | Canada Day Gift

Mindful Self-Awareness
Canadians are celebrating Canada Day on July 1. For 10+3 days (starting today), I am giving some of my time, expertise and devotion back: 🎁 My gift to 10+3 people* (in honor of the 10 Canadian provinces and 3 territories) is a 45-minute coaching-call each. 🎁 Book your coaching-call here: Please feel free to share this link with people you think might enjoy this gift: a safe space to hone in on introspective perspectives, and work toward goals. Why? I feel very fortunate and grateful to call this country my home. In Canada I have found freedom, adventures, love, a place to live, a wonderful child, incredible friends, and the liberty to develop and maintain a positive mindset. __________ Manuela Zeitlhofer | Mental Fitness Coach | The Introvert Solopreneur *For…
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