How To Stop Overthinking

Interconnection, Interdependence, Mindful Self-Awareness, Self-Leadership
How Do I Stop Overthinking? When More Thinking Isn't the Answer. The natural world is slowing down. The leaves have fallen. The fields are quiet. The days are growing shorter. Trees are no longer producing new leaves, and many living things are preparing to meet the colder months with fewer resources. They are adapting to the season. We humans, however, often have a complicated relationship with slowing down. We are accustomed to measuring our days by what we accomplish. Movement feels reassuring. Productivity gives us a sense of purpose, sometimes even a sense of worth. So when things slow down, we may become restless. Shouldn't I be doing more? Am I falling behind? What should I be doing next? And when we cannot find a clear way forward, we sometimes…
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Preparing for What Comes: How to Balance Planning & Trust

Interconnection, Interdependence, Nature, Self-Leadership
Preparing for What Comes Finding Balance Between Planning and Trust There are things I have learned to do before winter arrives. Making sure there is enough firewood for the coming season, perhaps even the next. Checking whether my daughter has outgrown her winter clothes. Protecting garden plants that aren't quite suited to our growing zone. Taking care of things that are much easier now than when the ground is frozen, and the snow is deep. As I grow older, I notice how much experience informs these decisions. I remember previous winters. What I needed, what I wished I had prepared earlier, and what turned out not to matter quite as much as I thought. Much of this preparation has become second nature. It isn't driven by a particular fear of…
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What Now? How to Explore & Live Your Choice

Conscious Living, Mindful Self-Awareness, Self-Leadership, Sustainable Leadership
Finding freedom in how we meet what is. Every autumn, the trees around us respond to changes they cannot prevent: The days grow shorter. Temperatures fall. The conditions that supported a summer of growth begin to disappear. Deciduous trees respond by withdrawing valuable nutrients from their leaves, conserving resources, and preparing for the colder months ahead. Their leaves change colour and eventually fall. Much of what sustained their summer growth is no longer needed in the same form. A tree cannot negotiate with the seasons. It cannot hold back winter or insist that summer continue. And yet, its response to changing conditions is anything but meaningless. Perhaps there is something here for us to consider. When We Cannot Change What Is Happening There is a great deal happening in our…
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