Difficulty makes us curious.
But what about the seasons when life is good?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We Rarely Study What Is Working<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Imagine a wide river in the height of summer. The spring rush has passed.
The water is still moving, but it no longer seems to be pushing urgently toward somewhere else. It carries leaves. Reflections. Small branches.
It moves around stones and follows the shape of the land. Steadily. Without rushing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Abundance Can Teach Us Too<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
When things are going well, we often simply keep going.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- A project is progressing.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Our energy feels relatively steady.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- A team is working well together.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- We are sleeping better, thinking more clearly, or feeling more like ourselves.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
And almost immediately, the mind asks: *What’s next? *What can I improve? What should I add? Where should I go from here?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But perhaps there is another question worth asking first: What is this teaching me?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Learn From the Good Seasons<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
We often treat wellbeing as if it simply happens.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Stress requires explanation. Exhaustion requires analysis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But a good season? — We accept it and move on. Yet positive experiences contain information too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Research on savoring<\/em> explores our capacity to notice, appreciate, and deepen positive experiences. It suggests that wellbeing is not only about coping with difficulty. We can also become more attentive to what supports us when life feels good.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This matters in leadership and in life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- If your energy has been more sustainable lately, what has helped?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- If a relationship feels easier, what are you doing differently?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- If work feels clearer, what have you stopped carrying?<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- If you feel more present, what has created that space?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
These are not small questions. They help us recognize the conditions in which we function well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What Is Carrying You?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
A river does not carry itself through force alone. Its movement is shaped by the land. By depth. By the water that has gathered upstream. By banks that give it direction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Perhaps the same is true for us. We often notice our own effort first.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what else has been carrying you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- A boundary you finally kept.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- A person who listens.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- A quieter morning.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- A decision you no longer need to revisit.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- A habit that has become natural. Something you put down.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
Sometimes sustainable growth becomes visible only when we stop looking at how hard we are working and begin noticing what is supporting the movement<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Before the Season Changes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Summer will not remain at its height forever.
That is not a problem.
The river will continue.
The light will change.
Another season will bring different questions.<\/p>\n\n\n\nBut there is no need to rush there yet. For now, perhaps we can stand beside the water a little longer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- Notice its steady movement.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Notice what it carries.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- Notice what it has learned from the land.<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- And ask: What is this season teaching me before it changes?<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
You do not always have to learn from what went wrong. Sometimes life is already showing you what works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure>\n\n\n\nLet the river teach you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
*This article’s reference to savoring is grounded in positive-psychology research that describes savoring as attending to and appreciating positive experiences; later research has also explicitly explored how people can learn from positive experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Reflection Prompt<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Before asking \u201cWhat’s next?\u201d, ask:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What is working well right now\u2014and what is it teaching me about how I live, lead, and use my energy?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Resources & Further Reading<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Savoring: A New Model of Positive Experience, by Fred B. Bryant and Joseph Veroff<\/strong>
On Amazon: https:\/\/www.amazon.ca\/Savoring-New-Model-Positive-Experience\/dp\/0805851194<\/a>
A foundational positive-psychology exploration of our capacity to attend to, appreciate, and deepen positive experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\nEnchantment: Awakening Wonder in an Anxious Age, by Katherine May<\/strong>
Publisher\u2019s page: https:\/\/www.penguinrandomhouse.com\/books\/667813\/enchantment-by-katherine-may\/<\/a>
A nature-attuned exploration of attention, wonder, and reconnecting with the world around us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n